I went out to lunch with a group of friends while we were down south. As long as I’ve known these women, some for over 40 years, none of them have ever had a weight problem. Or talked about a perceived weight problem. Or bemoaned the size of their hips or thighs or anything.
We are at lunch, 9 of us, and they decide to order hors d’oeuvres to share instead of separate meals. And they order four hors d’oeuvres, two of which only have four items on them. (note that I observed exactly how much food there was and how much we would each get … is that not too funny and so typical? … once again I’m concerned that I’m not going to get enough.) Well, I definitely was not going to overeat with this group. So I had half a walleye finger (SO delicious), about 1/2 Tbsp of Thai chicken wrapped in a piece of lettuce, 2 1×1 inch squares of some chicken thing, and skipped spinach dip because I don’t like chips AT ALL. Drank my water, ate my food, and left the table pleasantly satisfied. ETA: there was food left over!!!!
I need to hang out with people who eat like this more often.



